Thursday, April 4, 2013

Seeing the Failures of Others



"If any man see his brother sin a sin which is not unto death, he shall ask, and He shall give him life for them that sin not unto death."  1 John 5:16

We are always pretty quick to see where other people are failing - the way they raise their children, keep their houses, their language or dress, worldliness, shallow understanding, etc. If we are concerned about the things of God, it is inevitable that we will be troubled by the sins and shortcomings of people we know and care about.  But it makes a big difference how we see our own selves.  It is very easy to become a criticizing hypocrite.  We might feel like we know they are wrong because we ourselves got it right – we understand things better, we act better, we are more worthy.
We must look at things differently.  It is not our worthiness, our wisdom, or even our superior and doctrinally correct understanding of Scriptures. If we correctly see others’ failings, it is because He has blessed us in Christ to know something of His own character.   If we are His children, we have, by his grace, been made anew to be more Christ-like, more sensitive, more attuned to God’s holiness and majesty, more aware of our own failings, more humble about our own capabilities, more compassionate about the shortcomings of others.
All this is another way of saying that Christ’s spirit (the Spirit of God) dwells in us.  It is not a matter of mastering the knowledge of the revelation; it is a matter of submitting our wills to His in the walk of faith.  This certainly requires the written revelation to guide use.  But the “fruit of the Spirit” must be born in our lives, and we should give glory to Him for it – not to our own wisdom or worthiness.
If we realize this, we will remember that God says if one sees a brother sinning, ". . . he shall ask, and He shall give him life for them that sin not unto death."   We will see ourselves as saints with the responsibility of discernment concerning other souls. The failings of others are revealed to us – not so we can feel superior - but so that we may take these souls before Him in prayer.  When we intercede for them, God says He will give us "life for them that sin not unto death."  God will give to us spiritual life to bear a burden on their behalf - to have the mind of Christ about them, and to work toward the forgiveness of those whose hearts can be turned back to Him.
How this works in detail I cannot explain. But the Bible teaches that in the providence of God, in His care for His people, He makes many opportunities for His children for repentance, to be restored to Him and forgiven.  If we pray for them sincerely and earnestly, we can be a part of that providence.  He will give US life for them that sin “not unto death.”  What a glorious thought!  What a great responsibility!  How often I have failed in my prayer life for those around me who are stumbling and failing. 
Of course, it must be emphasized that we cannot effectively pray for the sins of others, if we are not sensitive to, and recognizing, and humbly repenting and confessing our own.                      
Think about this.  What if, instead of spending most of our prayer time focused on others’ physical illness or grief or financial woes, we spent more time praying in compassion and mercy for those who struggle spiritually?  Not praying arrogantly “I am better than they are” (the Pharisee of Luke 18) but determined to give our own time, effort, pleading and tears on their behalf, lifting them up to our heavenly Father.  Imagine that the promises of God might really work!  What kind of difference might we see in spiritual growth in our congregation?